Wednesday, May 21, 2025

We’re Not Your Backup Plan: Black Men Deserve More Than "Last Resort" Dating

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Do you genuinely enjoy dating Black guys or men of color? Or do you treat men of color like a last resort?  Are we a type that you're no...
Tuesday, July 4, 2023

Asking a Simple Question Can Protect My Safety & Mental Health: So Why Do So Many White People Hate Answering It?

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If you’re reading this, you’re probably one of my few but devoted followers.  Or… You’re probably someone who reacted negatively to a very b...
Monday, August 2, 2021

Dance For Me, Negro! Dance! (Are You a 'Mediocre' White Man Demanding Black Guys Tap Dance to Keep Your Attention?)

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My friend Josh Rivers, who runs the Busy Being Black podcast, joked in an Instagram story once, "If I'm going to experience racism,...
Saturday, August 17, 2019

Can You Change Your Standards of Beauty?

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One of my recent Grindr Survivr podcasts deals with our standards of beauty.  I spoke with self-help guru Sandy Robbins about the matter.  S...
Saturday, March 9, 2019

New Cover For My Grindr Survivr Book

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Hey everyone, I've got a new cover for my book: Grindr Surivr - How to Find Happiness in the Age of Hookup Apps. They say "Ne...
Tuesday, February 12, 2019

Are You Sabotaging Yourself - My Most Popular Podcast To Date!

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In the third episode of my Grindr Surivr podcast, I coach my friend Chris about some of his dating decisions. Together we see how being supe...
Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Grindr Survivr Podcast is Now Out

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Hey guys, I've created a podcast to follow on from my book Grindr Survivr: How to Find Happiness in the Age of Hookup Apps. I felt i...