Grindr Survivr

How do men navigate the endless choice of dating apps? How do we avoiding turn into mindless shagging zombies? This blog is designed to start a conversation to begin to look at how we can change the app culture and build relationships that are fulfilling and create a sense of community.

Wednesday, May 21, 2025

We’re Not Your Backup Plan: Black Men Deserve More Than "Last Resort" Dating

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Do you genuinely enjoy dating Black guys or men of color? Or do you treat men of color like a last resort?  Are we a type that you're no...
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Tuesday, July 4, 2023

Asking a Simple Question Can Protect My Safety & Mental Health: So Why Do So Many White People Hate Answering It?

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If you’re reading this, you’re probably one of my few but devoted followers.  Or… You’re probably someone who reacted negatively to a very b...
Monday, August 2, 2021

Dance For Me, Negro! Dance! (Are You a 'Mediocre' White Man Demanding Black Guys Tap Dance to Keep Your Attention?)

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My friend Josh Rivers, who runs the Busy Being Black podcast, joked in an Instagram story once, "If I'm going to experience racism,...
Wednesday, June 2, 2021

Implicit Bias in Online Dating: What White Men Need to Know!

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A LITTLE STORY ABOUT MUSIC: In the 1970's the New York Symphony orchestra (one of the most prestigious orchestras in the world) was over...
Sunday, May 30, 2021

White Privilege on the Gay Scene: (aka Things White Men Never Have To Worry About)

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While I'm working on writing a book on racism in the gay community, I wanted to start to begin to have a conversation about listing a lo...
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