But then I wondered How has this sister NOT educated him on racism?!?!?
I'm not sure what to call this final group of white guys. I mean, should you win an award for NOT being racist? Should you win an award for just being what we all think people should be? Do we make these people heroes? Like what do you say? I spent a week trying to come up with a clever term for white guys who were genuinely open to dating people of color without using or abusing them. And then that revelation hit me. Are they really that special?
So I just called them Hufflepuffs. The most non-dynamic term in pop culture.
But just because a Hufflelepuff is open to dating you does not mean that a host of other issues won't arise. Not to long ago, I was dating this drag queen. I don't think he had a racist bone in his body. But he was literally a narcissist. Now, I don't mean that as a sociopath. And I don't mean he can't feel some sympathy for other people. I mean, he was so caught up in his own little world, he literally can't appreciate an opposing view that challenges his own bubble of reality.
(More to come) .
But again, dating a Hufflepuff doesn't mean it's going to go anywhere. It just means you're not going to walk away from the date feeling devalued, because of your skin color. But you just might walk away thinking "This Mother F*cker is out of his God-DAMNED MIND!!!!!"